Family dynamics shift as Kainulainens navigate student life and parenthood in Helsinki

The steep stairs lead to the porch of a light-colored townhouse, where a small front yard still features a children’s inflatable pool, a welcome refreshment during a hot summer. We are in Torpparinmäki, a neighborhood favored by families in Helsinki, close to the Vantaa border, separated only by the winding Vantaa River.

In a 74.5 square meter rental apartment, the Kainulainen family, consisting of six members, feels a bit cramped, yet everything seems to have its place. They have applied for a larger rental within the same area, though they haven’t received one yet.

At home, mother Saara Kainulainen is waiting for the older children to return from school, while father Toni works remotely on his laptop in the bedroom. They reflect on their journey: ten years ago, they were university students when they learned about their first baby on the way. “We were among the first in our circle to start a family,” they recall.

Contrary to the common belief that starting a family should happen only when all life aspects are settled, including relationships and careers, the Kainulainen family has chosen a different path. “We grew together during our studies, which probably fast-tracked our progress,” Saara shares.

In Finland, the most common family type is a couple without children. Recent statistics indicate that family structures are evolving, with a growing number of student families. The Kainulainens, enjoying their busy life filled with love, find that transitioning from student life to parenthood was less drastic than one might expect when both parents are involved.

Saara is currently completing her teacher training in mathematics and hopes to enter the workforce next year, while Toni contemplates the added pressure this may bring. Together, they appreciate their close-knit family life in Helsinki.