217 Danes report romance scams leading to significant emotional distress and financial loss

During the first half of 2024, 217 Danes fell victim to romance scams, resulting in significant emotional distress and debt. According to figures from Finans Danmark, these scams led to fraudulent transactions totaling approximately 20.6 million DKK, with losses amounting to 9.7 million DKK.

While reports of romance scam incidents decreased from 1,099 cases in 2022 to 490 in the past year, the National Cyber Crime Centre noted a slight uptick in what is defined as “dating fraud” between 2022 and 2023. Sine Gregersen, founder of the Centre Against Economic IT Fraud, expressed skepticism about the reported decrease, suggesting the actual number of victims is likely rising due to underreporting resulting from shame and guilt.

Most victims are women aged 45 to 65, who typically lose more money than men, averaging 154,450 DKK compared to 96,000 DKK for male victims. Many victims find themselves in vulnerable situations, such as recently divorced or widowed.

The scams often begin with the perpetrators targeting potential victims through social media and dating platforms, sending flattering messages to attract attention. Once a connection is established, scammers shower victims with affection and tailor their communication to mirror victims’ interests, thereby deepening the emotional bond.

As the relationship strengthens, scammers fabricate crises requiring financial assistance, leveraging the dependency they’ve created. Victims can become isolated and manipulated into believing they are aiding their “partners,” perpetuating the fraudulent scheme.

To avoid falling victim, experts recommend skepticism towards unsolicited messages from attractive individuals, never sending money to someone you haven’t met in person, and asking for specific photos that can’t be easily replicated. The call for governmental support for victims, including a dedicated support hotline, has intensified as awareness of romance scams grows.