Birgitte Kvist advocates for open discussions about death in Jammerbugt Municipality

When reflecting on the end of life, how would you prefer to depart? This is a conversation people often avoid until it’s too late. This perspective is shared by 69-year-old Birgitte Kvist from Northern Jutland. A former nurse and now chair of the elderly council in Jammerbugt Municipality, Kvist is advocating for open discussions about death through community meetings aimed at facilitating conversations among residents.

Kvist feels it’s vital to address this topic, having already discussed her wishes with her family regarding her final moments. Both of her parents planned ahead, which allowed them to experience a peaceful death in line with their wishes. Her mother passed away two years after her father, and she was determined not to die in a hospital.

Kvist recalls her mother’s desire to be buried alongside her father, which was made possible due to their prior discussions. Knowing her parents’ wishes brought her great relief during a difficult time. She emphasizes that when facing such situations, it’s hard to make decisions while trying to say goodbye.

Together with her husband, Kvist has made decisions regarding their care should they become incapacitated. They have also selected gravesites at a forest cemetery and completed future powers of attorney and treatment directives to ensure their preferences are known.

Kvist believes it’s crucial for everyone to plan for the inevitable, regardless of age. By having the right documentation in place, family members can make informed decisions during emotionally challenging times. She notes that planning for such events can ease the burden on loved ones left behind.